Expressing sympathy

The most common way to show that you are sad for someone when something bad has happened is to use I’m (so) sorry. or I’m sorry to hear …

Diana told me about your brother’s accident. I’m so sorry.

I heard that Charlie had lost his job, Sara. I’m sorry.

I’m so sorry to hear that your mother died.

I was very sorry to hear that Julia and Marco had split up.

To show that you are sorry when something slightly bad or disappointing has happened, use It’s a shame … or It’s a pity …

It’s a shame you couldn’t come with us last night.

It’s a shame she didn’t pass her exam after all that hard work.

It’s a pity you can’t stay longer.

It’s a pity your mother won’t be there.

Other expressions of sympathy that you might want to use are:

I’m thinking of you.

Our thoughts are with you.

You have my deepest sympathy.

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